it's not in my control

I have no control over how things will play out. I can not control how people feel.

I can control how I react to the things people say and do.


My friend Gina Kelly is awesome. We call each other "love twin" because we always have the exact same things going on in our love lives. She always has the perspective I need to hear, even if it sucks.

I've been cranky the past two days, but I'm ok now. I'm making a conscious effort to let things play out the way they need to play out. Stressing or being sad/mad won't change a thing... it'll just ruin my day.

So, I'm going to do laundry, clean up the house, and prepare to spend a week with my little cousins while my aunt and uncle go to the Bahamas! ahh!