Best day in Korea so far...

Today was awesome. We first took the bus over to where Technomart (Best Buy on steroids) area to buy some bootleg DVDs. The guy has a little open air store, with walls covered in DVDs, and a book you can pick from. Thousand choices! I picked up a few, and ordered some he said he will have next week. Yay cheap movies! After we got the movies we hopped on the subway to head to COEX mall. COEX mall is the largest mall in Asia. I don't think I saw even half of it today. We were planning on going to a movie, but they were all sold out. COEX has the largest theater in Korea, but Koreans really love movies, they typically always sell out. New ones anyway. After we were shot down at the movie we popped into some stores. I bought charms that go on cell phones that you put money on to ride the bus and subway. Mine is Hello Kitty and I got nick a black one. I figured he wouldn't like the pink one, ahah. I also went to the big department store because Alicia informed me there is a Mac (cosmetics) counter. I was soooo happy to see some Mac! Those of you who know me well know my weaknesses are the Macs.... computers and makeup. haha. I spent over 100 bucks on just a few things, prices are a lot higher here, but it was sooo worth it! It was the best thing I've bought so far, vanity wise. :-)

After shopping for a while we went to On The Border for dinner. As I was explaining to my students a few weeks ago, franchises/chains are both evil and wonderful. It's really great to be able to go somewhere and know exactly what you're going to get... and that was the case! After the giant let down with Mexican food on our last outing I wasn't really holding my breath, but it was EXACTLY the same as home!! Woo! I love mexican food! We even had margaritas and queso dip! Why not? lol. After dinner we decided to hop in a taxi to head back to our neighborhood, but not before stopping in the book store. I was realllly impressed with the book selection here. They had a ton of my favs, and a lot that are on my "to read" list. I didn't buy any, but I did buy some amazing holiday cards. I will wait for Nick to get here so we can go pick out books we will both enjoy. They are too expensive here to buy something unless I realllly want it, or we will both read it. I loved the book store!

After escaping the crowds of the mall (picture Black Friday type crowds, EVERY day... thats the mall) we got a taxi. We stopped at the coffee shop around the corner from my house (I can't wait to take nick there!) and decided we would hit up the open air market tonight instead of tomorrow. I had heard of this market, but thought it was maybe like 10 vendors selling fruits and vegetables. Oh no, boy was I wrong. This market is probably half a mile long, packed full of stores, street vendors, people cooking on the street, fish being flung around, ladies trying to sell you blankets, rip off Polo clothes, even some pharmacies and salons! It was wild... anything you could imagine. This market is directly behind my house and I had no idea!! I'm so sad I didn't find this sooner. The market was by far the coolest thing we have done so far. I know I should probably be more impressed by the giant mall with the fancy stores and food, but I was far more excited to see the market. I was like nothing I've ever seen before, and totally Korean style. I love that in korea you can pick your dinner out of a fish tank, they will catch it, cook it up on the street for you, then you walk away chomping on dinner. It's so cool! I will be going back there soon and taking pics to post. I can't give this place justice, but I don't think pictures could do it either. It's the smell of the seafood, sweet smells of the fruit stands, sounds of koreans trying to make a deal, sounds of korean kids running around.... those things you can't capture in picture.

so yeah.... that was my day.... shopping shopping. I bought a ton of stuff, and I'm happy about it! I feel bad buying things for the house, we will only be here a year.... but it's impossible for me to live somewhere and not want to make it a home. Luckily things aren't too expensive here, so it's not like I'm spending thousands of dollars on all this furniture I'll only use for 11 more months.

Can you believe I've already been here about 6 weeks?? Time is flying by. Some days it feels like I'm still in shock that I'm even here, other days I feel like it's been 6 months already.

Oh, Nick will be here in 4 days!! :-) He booked his ticket, no more guessing when he will FINALLY arrive. I'm excited, can't wait to show him all the cools things I've learned. I'm kind of happy I got to come first (although I wish it wasn't SO far ahead of him) because I got to take my time trying the food and navigating around. He is far more adventurous with food than I am, so he would have been ready to try everything, and I would have been crying ahah. Now I found things I like that I can introduce him to. :-)

Well, thats it for now. Tomorrow will be spent cleaning, doing laundry, going to the grocery store to stock up on stuff before Nick gets here, and watching movies. I love productive yet partially lazy sundays! It will probably be cold and rainy, perfect for cleaning then snuggling up in bed with a new flick!

xo

I'm better now

Happy to report I'm better today. Sorry for the freak out. I'm not due for another freak out for 3-6 months so.... so don't say I didn't warn you, haha.

So, things are better with me, emotionally. I am still sad I missed Thanksgiving with the family, but now I'm that much closer to kicking off the holiday season with them next year.

Woo.

I'm looking forward to the weekend. Exploring COEX mall tomorrow, eating some American food, and going to see a movie. Probably finish the night of with some cocktails. It will be a fun day. I need it.

I'm also nesting for the boy to get here. Cleaning, organizing, shopping, more cleaning, stocking up on stuff. The norm.

xoxo

Bitch-fest 2009

If you don't care to hear me bitching about things beyond my control, hit X now. I won't blame you.

I feel like I'm being punished in a sense for being a better employee than the other American teacher here. We got our new schedules for next semester. Most of my classes have twice as many kids as hers. I just feel like since I prepare more, can handle a classroom better, and just because I'm a better teacher basically that I have different expectations from my bosses. I may be totally off base, but it just feels like my new schedule and classes suck. Fingers crossed I don't loathe work for the next three months until a new term. Gah.

Next thing I wanna bitch about: vacation time. I was told by my boss that I can't take vacation time around Holidays, because those are already paid days off. Low and behold the other American teacher is going home for Christmas. wtf. She was just home 2 months ago. Why can she go home for a holiday, but I can't take any of my vacation days near a holiday?

Biggest bitch of the day: I know for a FACT my bosses assistant is coming in my house when I'm not home. 3 or 4 times it has been to fix stuff, or take a bed apart, but I KNOW he has been there other times. I leave my light on in the bathroom EVERY day, because it's dark when i get home. The one time I didnt leave the light on, i tripped and almost broke my face. So, EVERY day before I leave, I double check the bathroom door is left open, and the light is on. Twice I've come home to the light being off. Now, my glasses are missing. I only wear my glasses to watch TV at night (or at the movie theater) and then I put them on the bedside table so I know where they are. Well, three days ago my glasses went missing. I haven't gone to the movies, or anywhere but work. I don't wear my glasses at work. I can't say that I know 100% it was him, weirder things have happened, but it's just weird. I HATE the idea of someone being in my home when I'm not there. Maybe this stems back to my house being broken into 3 Christmases ago. Its a major violation. I dont know what he is doing when I'm not there. My mom didn't help by saying she knows he is going through my panty drawer. Ugh.

mini-bitch: korean table manners. Close your damn mouth when you chew. I dont want to hear what you're eating, or see it. Gross.


I really wanna bitch about my boyfriend, but I know he is a good guy and I'm just frustrated with the whole visa process. I'm totally resenting that he is home with his family for Thanksgiving, and I'm stuck here alone. It's not fair. I know life isn't fair, but I was totally delt a shitty hand this week.

Good news is, it's almost the weekend. I don't really know if that's good news, but being at home seems like a good alternative to being at work today.




this is how i feel today..... METAL!!!

Worky work work....

I know work is stressing me out when I dream about it! I totally woke up, wrote down something for work, then went back to bed. I can't wait for next week to be here so my new classes will start and I can see how bad it actually is. I'm not impressed with my schedule. While I'm not technically working a lot more hours than I currently am, they are laid out weird so it feels like LONGGG days. Bah! . ;-)

I'm SO excited my super awesome boyfriend will be here in DAYS! Not WEEKS! It's been 7 weeks since we've seen each other, by FAR the longest I've gone without seeing a boyfriend. I never thought it would be harder to keep a relationship going strong from a distance, than it is from the same room. My momma said it's because you have all of the work of a relationship, without any of the benefits. It's true. I need some benefits. I thought we wouldn't fight and everything would be smooth sailing.... I mean, how can we piss each other off from a couple continents away? Pfft, little did I know! Haha. It's a good thing he loves me so much, because if I were him I would have told myself to go take a hike on a few seperate occasions!

Anyway, I have two hours until work is over. My student evaluations are done. My testing is graded. My lesson plans are made until March. I literally have NOTHING to do! It's not all it's cracked up to be, I promise. I need something to stimulate my brain before it starts turning to mush. Maybe I'll run across to the grocery store and pick up some fruit. I love fruit. I'm getting brave with my food selections now. I ate fruit at the bar the other night and didn't die. I heard a few times it's not good to eat fruit with skin in new places. Alas, I'm ok.


Bye bye. xo

Oh yeah, Sarah got the wedding pictures back..... they are really nice. Sneak peak!





and of course me being bratty with the boyfriend! haha

A night out in Seoul...

So, I've talked a lot about the food, the people, and the weird stuff I see..... now on to something a little more exciting... nights out!

Before coming to Korea I spoke to a few friends that had lived here, or were already living here. They all said the exact same thing, "Those Koreans really know how to party!" It's SO true haha.

Our night started at 7pm, Alicia and I met Yoo and her guy friend on a busy street near the party district. I mentioned (while waiting for the 4th member of our party) that I feel like my blonde hair is a beacon for attention, to which someone replies, "Yeah, it's like bright flashing lights." Thanks, haha. At least Alicia blends in with her dark hair. haha.

So after we had the troops assembled we headed into the party district(Kondae) to find some dinner. After much deliberation they asked about some food I had never seen/heard of before. Feeling brave I said I was in, hoping I wouldn't regret it haha. On the table was the grill, kind of like the Korean BBQ, but instead of meat to grill, they brought out a huge pan filled with chicken, cabbage, red pepper sauce, sweet potatoes, other random veggies, and these giant rice noodles that kind of look like ziti noodles.
So every 5 mins or so someone from the wait staff comes over and stirs all the food.... it slowly turns into this red stew looking stuff, then the water evaporates and it look like... food? haha. So Cho serves us some in a small dish, and I take a bite... with everyone watching for my reaction. It was realllly good! Yum. So we sat and talked, ate, and drank soju for quite a while. Good times.





After dinner we decided to go a bar we had all gone to together before... knowing it's always busy and fun. Most bars (only 1 hasn't so far) make you order food when you go drinking, which may contribute to their long nights! We ordered a pitcher of beer, and a fruit plate. turns out Koreans put honey mustard on everything, including fruit. I tried to wipe it off, haha. Icky. At this point our friend that owns the Indian restaurant shows up, so we begin to play drinking games. I learned some fun Korean games, but once we were bored with those I decided to teach them some American drinking games. Somewhere around this time a magician shows up and does some magic tricks... haha. It's NEVER boring going out here. After another few pitchers of beer we decide to go find a hookah bar. Lucky for us the Indian guy (we think he is from Nepal) knows of one just around the corner!






After braving the COLD, we arrive at the hookah bar and head down a flight of stairs. When you reach the bottom, you take off your shoes and head down another flight of stairs. This place was amazing. Dimly lit, floor seating, candles, curtains everywhere so you have privacy for your group, and it's just lavish and beautiful decorating. I was happy instantly! After we are all situated we order some more beer, and watermelon/cherry hookah. It was sooo good! We discovered that the bar has a cat (VERY rare for Korea, they hate cats) so of course I fell in love with it. Eventually I got the cat out of hiding and into my lap. It took a little nap on the pillows beside me, then ran off when I tried to feed it chicken haha. Oh yeah, after an hour of so Yoo decided she was hungry (no idea how these tiny Korean chicks put away so much food) and ordered chicken nachos. I'm not sure what they served us, but it sure as hell wasn't chicken nachos haha. I think it was a nacho pizza or something? It had like ketchup on it or something.



So, after the shisha ran out, the beers were consumed, and the food was gone, we decided to call it a night (although Alicia was trying to talk us all into another bar).

So, that's a fairly typical night out in Seoul. :-)

Routine...

I've finally fallen into a routine, and it's so nice! I wake up early to chat with the boyfriend. I finally make my way out of the cold bed and shower for work. I spend my day at work.... I've figured out the ropes, things are smooth sailing there. I either come home or go get dinner/drinks with friends. I come home, change, turn on the TV, fire up the computer, and decided what to try and pass off as dinner. I then watch some TV, grade papers, and wait for the boy to wake up so we can chat before bed. Lather, rinse, repeat. Its nice. One of the things I missed over the summer was not having a day job and a routine. It's nice to be back in a normal swing of things. :-)

About a week until the boy gets here... I'm so excited I could pee. I won't though, because that'd be gross. Finally the waiting game will pay off. We have SO earned this. Being away from each other for 6 weeks has NOT been easy.... on more than one level. I can't wait to hug and kiss him!!! ahh!

not much else is going on.... just working, dealing with the cold, and waiting for the weekend. Hopefully I have fun things to write about over the weekend. Maybe I'll tackle my views on the Korean education system. I'm going to COEX mall (maybe) and for dinner and cocktails with some Koreans I met.... so it should be a fun and relaxing weekend!

Also, my cousin asked why kittens are a thing to fear in Korea.... so here goes trying to explain it. Remember in Gremlins when the cute little Mogwai turns into a nasty Gremlin?! Well, thats what happens if you try to approach a kitten here. Animals suffer a lot of abuse, and street animals more than most... so they are pretty much terrified of humans and freakkkk out (convulsion freaky style). I only had to learn that lesson twice... once wasn't enough. :-)

The difference between hungry and satisfied...

In the last 4 weeks in Korea Ive learned the difference between being hungry, and satisfying my taste buds. I haven't been really hungry since I got to Korea (except the two times I went 2-3 days without eating.... because I couldn't find anything I would eat).. but I also haven't had my tastes satisfied... until today. I didn't realize a large part of being homesick isn't only for the people, or the comforts of your home... it's also the want for familiar tastes and smells. I miss the smell of American cooking just as much, if not more than the actual food.

This morning I discovered my toaster works. I didn't think much of it at first... but then I remembered I had eggs! So, I made some toast, fried an egg... and made a sandwich. Back home I don't even really like egg sandwiches... but this morning it was the most delicious thing I had tasted in over a month. The smell of an egg cooking and bread toasting made me feel so warm and... at home. My mom used to make toast sometimes for a late snack, so the smell of toast has always brought me to a happy place. This morning my tastes were satisfied. It was a good day.

I picked up some pasta at the store this weekend, and some pasta sauce. I can't eat anymore rice or ramen for a while... I'm burnt out!! I splurged on butter as well (suppper expensive) because I'm going to make mashed potatoes for our pseudo Thanksgiving next week. So far I have Stove Top, corn, mashed potatoes, and chicken breast on the menu. I can't wait :-) I'm also excited to do Thanksgiving activities with the kiddos at work. Next Friday is the last day of the term, so it'll be a busy week. We have the monthly testing and the monthly spelling test... so the rest of the week will be activities and fun stuff, as long as we finish our texts books this week.

Well, not much to talk about since my last post. I'm happy we have a lighter work load this week, it'll give me time to look over our new text books and make lesson plans. Other than work, I'll just be counting down the days until my boy gets here. And counting down the days until I go with some friends to COEX mall to go shopping! :-)

P.S. If anyone is planning on sending me gifts for the holidays, I'll make it cheap and easy on you... I just want McCormick flavorings!! (Taco seasoning, ranch dip, garlic potatoes..etc..). I found a lot of ingredients I can work with over here, I just need the spices/flavoring! I found a few pouches at the black market, but I'm not paying 8 times the retail value! For 2-3 bucks you could make me a happy girl. :-) End shameless wish-list advertisement now!

I am ashamed!

I paid almost 10 dollars today for a box of Stove Top. It was my only purchase at the black market. I couldn't bring myself to pay those prices for anything else. We are talking MAJOOOOR highway robbery! A packet of taco seasoning (which is like what... a dollar, max?) was over 6 bucks! A can of cake frosting 9 bucks! Cheezits.... 12 bucks! A box of powder style mac and cheese... 7 bucks!!! I reallllly wanted some mac and cheese, but I couldn't talk myself into paying 14 times the price it is at home. I just can't do it!!!

Ok, enough ranting about the black market. Itaewon wasn't what I expected. You know how in San Fran and NYC they have China Town... Little Italy... stuff like that? Well, it's little America. Haha. Seriously. Most of the signs are in English, tons of foreign restaurants and shopping, and you can hear English all over the place! It was strange to see more foreign people than Koreans. I've grown so used to being the only white person walking down the street. I was almost uncomfortable, in a strange way. I can't really explain it.

We ended up deciding on Mexican food for dinner. I was really excited, it looked JUST like any Mexican joint back in the US. After some margaritas and corona the food showed up, it looked amazing.... I took a bite... and it was SOOO bad! I kind of expected it, but it looked so good! They put like spaghetti sauce on the burrito instead of enchilada sauce! Inside, they put ground beef type stuff that had korean flavors on it, and instead of mexican rice... it had like the chicken and herb rice-a-roni. FAIL!! Total bummer! I ate like at least half of it though, because it wasn't Korean food. Anything other than Korean was winning for me!




After Itaewon we took the subway back to Kondae to get some drinks. On the Subway I made some friends. This Korean police looking guy (maybe military) was staring at me HARDCORE, After getting chatted up/smiled at/goosed/ and crazy eye contact all day I was feeling a bit ballsy. So I smiled, stared, and made some funny faces. He smirked a few times, but never broke his serious stern face. Finally, after a 30 mins awkward subway ride (mind you I was squished between two other Korean dudes, one who put on his face mask after I looked at him) it was time to get off. I gave the man a HUGE smile and wave (which doesn't happen here) and I got a nod back! It's a breakthrough. I will will Korea over, I will I tell you!

Kondae was same as it every other time we've been there. Tons of crowds, street food, weird people, guys asking me where a bank is (in English) as an excuse to talk to me, and bars! Went to two bars, had some drinks and munchies... then called it a night.

All in all it was a good adventure. I'll go back to Itaewon when I'm in dire need for black market goods.... but other than that, I like my little corner of Seoul we call Gwangjin-Gu! :-)



Tomorrow.... maybe I'll be up for another adventure. Alicia and I are going to emart (food shopping) and I need to clean the apartment. Things are sooo dusty!!

Ni-ni

Only in Korea....

Went and saw "2012" after work tonight with a friend. It was really good. It had lots of action and loud noises, and of course the love story so the ladies aren't bored. :-)


I want to start a list of "Only in Korea" things. Sometimes I hear whities say "ohhh Korea!" and it got me thinking. Some things you will only see in Korea....

Only in Korea..... can I drink wine in the movie theater.

Only in Korea.... can two straight men walk down the street holding hands, and it's totally normal.

Only in Korea..... can you get a large meal, with sides, delivered and served to you at work, then the dishes picked back up, for under 4 bucks.

Only in Korea.... are traffic laws mere suggestions, not to be taken seriously.

Only in Korea.... is a 15 pound dog considered a giant beast, and people cross the street to escape it's wrath.

Only in Korea.... are kittens something to fear.

Only in Korea.... do the kids go to school and extra classes 12-14 hours a day.

Only in Korea... can an American try and stop a man from beating his wife on the street, and get arrested for "fighting."


That's all for now. I'll add to the list later. :-)

going to Iteawon tomorrow for dinner, drinks, and hopefully finding American food to buy!

I want Turkey!!

Thanksgiving is coming up. The first real event I'll be missing back home (if you don't count Halloween). I hope my boy makes it here before then, it'll make things better for me. Thanksgiving isn't as big in my family as Christmas, I've missed a few before. It is still special, though.

No Thanksgiving in Korea, obviously. My friend Alicia and I are going to look for Stove Top in Itaewon this weekend. It's the mecca for finding all things foreign. I'm going to enjoy shopping there, if we can find a place to buy American food. Wish we luck.


Work is going well. I've got the hang of things now.... for the most part. I don't think the kids have had a teacher like me before. They are learning my teaching style and jokes now. I have a few unruly boys, but I'm figuring out how to DO WHAT I WANT!! hahahah.

There is a writing class. They are my FAVORITE. They are using an American text book, not an English learner book. They are really advanced, and one of the only classes that can carry on conversations and ask about American culture. They are so curious, it's awesome. Today we took a field trip. The text book called for the class to write directions on how to get to the lunch room from the classroom. So, I decided we would all split up and write directions on different ways to get out of the building. It was really fun. Kids running up and down stairs, kids in elevators giggling, kids freezing their butts off waiting at the bottom floor. Then we switched papers and tested how accurate the directions were. I was proud that most of the directions successfully got us out of the building. We ended up in a bathroom once. Oops. Gotta learn the difference between right and left!

Tomorrow the older kids graduate and move down to the 4th floor for middle school. I'm having a pizza and movie party for one of my classes. They are the other really advanced class I have. They can be giant pains in the asses, as most teenagers are.... but they are really curious about other cultures and were really willing to talk and be expressive. Korean kids have such structured and strict lives it's a real challenge to get them to express themselves. I'm finally to the point now my classes don't say "Fine. Thanks" when I ask them how they are. We add a new feeling to our vocabulary almost every day, and I only allow them to use our new descriptive words. Turns out one student tried to go above and beyond and googled a few American phrases. So, today, he told me he "feels like shit." Hmmmm, I didn't teach him that haha. Thanks google.

Next two weeks will be quiet. I'm only teaching 19.5 hours each week. That will be a nice break! We still have to be at work those hours, but I'll have time to look at our new text books and make some lesson plans. I'm sad all the classes are being broken up and moved around for the new term. C'est la vie. 40 more names to learn. Gah.

I need to blog about the Korean education system sometime. Its the best education system in the world, but they are making some huge sacrifices in other areas to be number one. I have very mixed feelings.

Ok, thats enough for tonight. It's after 1 in the morning.

I have to wake up early to go to the post office and mail pen pal letters. That writing class I was talking about wrote penpal letters to my old class from last year. I'm super excited about this.

xo

Korean Holidays....

I'm currently exploring Korean Holidays. Tomorrow is a holiday here.... Pepero Day!

For most of the world, November 11 is known as Veteran's Day, celebrating the date in 1911 when the first World War ended. In Korea they have their own sweet day, Pepero Day! I was told it's on 11/11 because that date looks like a bunch of Pepero. Pepero are long pencil sized cookies that are dipped in chocolate. You are supposed to give these cookies to people you care about (family, lovers, teachers, friends). It's often thought of as a "lovers holiday" like Valentine's Day. I'll have to explain Valentine's Day later, it's really interesting!

So, eat cookies and think of me here in Korea :-)

Edit: I got a TON of pepero from all my students today. Everyone at work is consuming it like it's crack.

I don't wanna die!!

Have you ever heard of "death by fan?" No, I don't mean falling into a giant fan blade at a factory or something. Or some crazy person attaching razors to a fan... haha.

Koreans believe you can die just by sleeping in a room with a fan turned on. I thought this was a joke or one of those "my mothers friend believes this" kind of things, but nope, people my age, doctors, educated people, old people, young people.... believe this! Of course not everyone believes this, but when I asked a girl if she bought into this, she paused, then replied, "Well, I'm not sure.... maybe not... but why test it?!"

To this day there can be up to 10 reports a summer of "death by fan" on the news. Doctors even perpetuate this story! I read on some forums that this story may be just a way to cover up the extremely high suicide rate here.

The phenomenon of fan death is accepted by many Korean doctors. In summer, mainstream Korean news regularly report on cases of fan death. An example is this excerpt from the July 28, 1997, edition of The Korea Herald, an English-language newspaper:
The heat wave which has encompassed Korea for about a week, has generated various heat-related accidents and deaths. At least 10 people died from the effects of electric fans which can remove oxygen from the air and lower body temperatures...
On Friday in eastern Seoul, a 16-year-old girl died from suffocation after she fell asleep in her room with an electric fan in motion. The death toll from fan-related incidents reached 10 during the past week. Medical experts say that this type of death occurs when one is exposed to electric fan breezes for long hours in a sealed area. "Excessive exposure to such a condition lowers one's temperature and hampers blood circulation. And it eventually leads to the paralysis of heart and lungs," says a medical expert.
"To prevent such an accident, one should keep the windows open and not expose oneself directly to fan air," he advised.


I hate to admit this, as a person that sleeps with the fan turned on 9 months out of the year, and I had a twinge of "well maybe Korean buildings have different ventilation systems, or maybe their fans work differently" for a moment. Will this urban legend keep me from sleeping with a fan on when it's like a sauna here this summer? Probably not. Will I crack my window the slightest bit? Perhaps.

for more info check this link

http://urbanlegends.about.com/od/medical/a/fan_death.htm

Hangang Park and Korean sushi

Went to Hangang park with Alicia and her puppy Louise today. We thought we wouldn't make it due to a big storm, but magically, at noon (when we planned to go) the clouds parted, rain stopped, and the sun came out. Yay. So off we went to Hangang Park on the Han River. It's a really nice walking path along the river, Swan Boats, basketball courts, a wedding boat and bar, playgrounds, rock climbing wall, playgrounds, fountains, gardens, skate park, a new public pool complete with lazy river, among other things. It was a nice walk, only sprinkled for a few minutes when we stopped to let her dog rest. There were people bike riding along the bath, walking with their lover, and families out enjoying one of the last warm Sundays until spring. I'm glad we got to go, the view was amazing, directly across the river is the olympic stadium. good times.

I also tried a bite of Alicia's korean style sushi. It had rice, veggies, egg, and tuna, all wrapped in seaweed. It was good, I may eat it again.

Now I'm going to spend a few hours at home, watching TV, playing online, and bumming around before I meet Alicia for dinner.

It was a good weekend. Relaxing, with some fun thrown in. I could have used a cocktail over the weekend though!

take it day by day....

Things are looking up here in Korea. My boyfriend found a job. That's the best news I've heard in so long. He still needs to make sure it's a good job (they pay on time and treat employees ok), but it seems like everything is falling into place. It's amazing what this did for my morale. I felt like a new person walking through the streets of Seoul. I saw so many things I never noticed before because I was so busy in my own head all the time. It's been exhausting spending so many hours of my day looking for jobs for him, emailing him, worrying about him, and focusing on being miserable. It's like a huge weight was lifted. I really enjoyed Korea today. I just kind of soaked in the busy street, the noises, the smells, the faces of the people. It was enjoyable. I need a camera. So many little moments I want to record.

Alicia and I went to the movies tonight. We saw Time Travelers Wife. It was really good. Cried my eyes out as expected. I am really glad I took the boyfriends advice and read the book first. It must have been foreigners night out. We saw so many white folk. haha. I have figured out the "foreigner nod." When you walk past another person it's weird to strike up a conversation (it doesn't happen) but it's polite to nod. Just kind of like "hey man, I see you, I know how you feel" haha. I wonder if other cultures in America do the same thing. Like the Asian nod when they see another Asian person. Hmmm. Food for thought. We went to a starbucks tonight. It's amazingly like stepping back into the US. The lighting is the same, the smell, the furniture, the food. It was amazing. That was one of my perks for the day.

I want to start taking notes on the funny things I see.

I love examining other cultures. I've done it a little bit since I've been here, but I havent gone out too much, so my contact has been kind of limited. When I do go out it's just interesting to see how Koreans interact with each other, and how they respond to me. I need a notebook or something along with the camera. I want to be able to have a record of some sort of the feelings I experienced, what I saw, and how the world felt to me at that moment.

So, in conclusion. Things are looking brighter and better today.

I have a bad habit (well, I have a lot...) that I'm not sure what to do about. I hate explaining things to people. But not all people, just certain ones. Mostly people I'm closest to. Maybe from always working with children and I always have to explain every little thing. Maybe I'm burnt out on it, or maybe I'm just not a patient person. I hate explaining to people things going on in my life though. i'm not really a guarded person, I'll divulge just about anything. I get annoyed at all the questions that go along with explaining things I think. I want to paint a picture for someone, and I want them to understand what I'm trying to say. Or sometimes I just want to give certain information about something so I don't want to have the person dig deeper. I'm not sure if I should try and be more forthcoming, or avoid situations where I have to explain things.

I've been avoiding talking to a few people because I don't want to tell them whats going on over here. I don't really know why. I feel like I'm seeing so much I couldn't properly paint the picture for them. I feel like I'd explain things in a way they wouldn't understand. I dunno. I'm weird.